Ever have that one person in your life that you just can't give up on? The one person who can screw you over time after time yet you always seem to give them another chance? No matter how many times you say that this is their last one, you know it's a lie because there's always just one more waiting for them? The one person you know you're better off without but yet you can't find a way to let them go? Because deep down inside you wouldn't know what to do without them. The one person that you know doesn't deserve you but yet you chooses to overlook it. Because you love him.
Saturday, September 24, 2016
Tuesday, September 20, 2016
Waiting for someone
I used to think that waiting for someone you love to be ready is the ultimate form of flattery and the ideal declaration of love.
It’s how all epic love stories unfold and those who waited are finally rewarded for their patience when their lover comes back to them, then I had a very simple epiphany- the most epic love stories start when two people decide they like each other, they want to be with each other and they want to make the relationship work. Love is not always going to be easy and there will always be compromises, but having to wait for someone for months or years to finally decide to give you a chance should not be one of them.
Admit it, you don’t know what you are waiting for. Are you waiting for a declaration of love? Are you waiting for someone to change? Are you waiting for someone to recognize how loyal and patient you are? Are you waiting for a sign? Whatever it is you are waiting for should not keep you waiting if it’s truly worth it and you should always ask yourself if you are waiting for something that may never happen.
Waiting for someone means that you are okay with that person treating you like you are not important or that you don’t deserve their time.
Waiting for someone means that you don’t value yourself enough to realize that if someone cares enough, they will not keep you waiting or wondering. You are choosing to blind your own eyes from seeing the truth that will eventually blindside you.
Waiting for someone is not a sign of strength or loyalty, it’s a sign of denial and ignoring what you already know to be true. You will continue putting them on a pedestal they don’t even know they’re on, you will continue investing your all on nothing.
Because when you lose a person for whatever reason you are going to realize that you are on your own, and that you waited months or years for someone who didn’t end up fulfilling the prophecy you created for them. Sometimes patience is a waste of time.
Waiting for someone means that you are pouring salt on your own cuts and acting like it doesn’t burn. It means that you have agreed to be the person they “settle” for after exploring all other options. It means that you are surrendering yourself to rejection over and over again and acting like it’s the natural process of waiting.
Waiting for someone means you are pushing away people who are willing to give what you are waiting for and they are willing to give it to you immediately. It means you are telling the whole world that you do not deserve the respect and love that you give others, that you are willing to compromise the most precious parts of yourself for someone who doesn’t even try to give a little bit more.
As much as you deserve to be rewarded for your patience and as much as you deserve someone who comes back and finally claims you, this is not always the case. You shouldn’t set aside yourself for anyone else, because when you lose a person for whatever reason you are going to realize that you are on your own, and that you waited months or years for someone who didn’t end up fulfilling the prophecy you created for them. Sometimes patience is a waste of time.
If you must wait; wait to be chosen every day, wait to be reminded that you are special, wait to be loved in the way that you constantly love, wait to be taken seriously and wait for someone who doesn’t keep you waiting, because you know that you deserve better than waiting around for someone to make up their mind.
By Rania Naim
Matuto kang sumuko
Bakit ka magpaparamdam sa taong hindi marunong makaramdam. Huwag kang magpakatanga sa taong hindi marunong magpahalaga. Matuto kang sumuko at mang iwan, kung lagi ka namang sinasaktan. Imbis na magtanong ka ng "hindi pa ba sapat ?" Bakit hindi mo na lang kalimutan ang lahat? Kung alam mong binabalewala ka na, Tanggapin mong nagsasawa na siya, huwag kang magpadala sa salitang "Sorry, Mahal kita" dahil kung totoo yun, patunayan niya.
Monday, September 19, 2016
Don't love me
Don't love me if you can't accept my imperfections. I have issues about myself. I sometimes feel that I'm not worthy of anyone. Sometimes I feel like I'm not good enough.
Don't love me if you just love me because of my appearance. Love is not just like that. Beauty fades.
Don't love me if you just want my body. My body is sacred.
Don't love me if you can't deal with my trust issues. I've been broken a lot of times. It's not easy.
Don't make me fall for you and you'll just leave me hanging. You're just giving me more reasons to doubt myself. It'll be hard for me to open up again.
Don't love me if you will not stay. Don't love me if you'll just cheat on me. Don't love me if you will just be like them. Don't love me...
Sunday, September 18, 2016
A girl who finally gave up
An open letter to the girl who's still trying:
Hey girl, you love him truly. Don't you? Isn't he your first thought in the morning and last in the night? You always check your phone to see if there is any call or text from him. You always want to spend time with him because that makes you happy. He is your first priority. Isn't he? But girl does he consider you this much special? Are you his first priority? No.
You are losing your sleep for him but he is sleeping well with a different other girl on his mind. You are waiting for his texts but he is probably texting that 'other girl'. Because you are not the one he wants. Maybe you are one of his wants. But do you deserve this? No.
You try to move on but again he comes and gives reply to your text which you sent him three days ago. He again talks to you and makes you feel special. He tells that he misses you and that makes you feel like to do everything for this guy. He says he doesn't like that you talk to other guys. That makes you feel like to leave everything and do everything just to keep him pleased.
He can control your emotions and only he can. How nice! But then he is gone again. No actually he is there but not for you. He is posting on social media and hanging around with his friends. And there you are, waiting for him to come. Don't worry he will text you again when he feels like.
But girl you don't deserve this. You deserve someone who makes you feel like you are the one. And loves the imperfect you perfectly. So forget about him. Because if you are not the girl he is giving his all to, then he should not be the boy whom you are still dedicated to.
Wednesday, September 7, 2016
Tuesday, September 6, 2016
Sunday, September 4, 2016
20 realizations on my 20's
1. Some people aren't meant to stay.
2. You work so hard, but your salary isn't enough.
3. You want to be successful in life, but you don't know how to achieve it.
4. You have many ideals.
5. You don't fall in love easily.
6. You get hurt too much.
7. People will expect a lot from you.
8. You learn to let go of people who hurt you.
9. It's okay to cry.
10. People will have something to say whether you do good or bad.
11. You want to travel a lot, but you are broke af.
12. Swag no longer attract you.
13. Intelligence does.
14. Being egoistic won't help.
15. Forgiving is better.
16. The pressure is on in all aspects of your life.
17. Flirting is no longer your thing.
18. It's okay to be alone sometimes, to understand yourself more.
19. You becomes less sociable.
20. Don't easily trust people.
Thursday, September 1, 2016
Tips para tumagal ang relasyon niyo
Sa isang relasyon dapat give and take. Dapat iniintindi mo yung partner mo, huwag puro ang sarili mo ang iniisip mo. Huwag mo siyang sasakalin, pero huwag naman yung tipong hindi mo na siya pakikialaman sa mga dapat at hindi niya dapat gawin. Sa pag-ibig kasi hindi naman kailangan puro sweet lang. Hindi naman kailangan na kayo nalang palagi ang magkasama 24/7. At syempre yung tiwala niyo sa isa't isa kailangan manatili sa puso at isip niyo. Na kahit malayo at hindi kayo madalas magkita o magkasama, hinding hindi kayo gagawa ng isang bagay na ikasisira ninyong dalawa.
Give them something to talk about
Life is too short to care what people say or think about you. So go, do what makes you happy and give them something to talk about.
Just because
Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
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